Letter to <persName ref="#Haydon">B.R. Haydon</persName>, 31 October 1821. Mary Russell Mitford Elisa E. Beshero-Bondar Mary Russell Mitford Society: Digital Mitford Project University of Pittsburgh at Greensburg Elisa Beshero-Bondar Transcription and coding by Elisa Beshero-Bondar Date last checked: 2014-12-04 Proofing and corrections by Lisa Wilson Gregory H. Bondar Elisa Beshero-Bondar First digital edition in TEI, date: 2 June 2013. P5. Edition made with help from photos taken by Digital Mitford editors Digital Mitford photos files: 1821-10-31-BRHaydon.pdf, 31October1821BRHaydon1.JPG, 31Oct1821BRHaydon4a.JPG, 31Oct1821BRHaydon3b.JPG, 31Oct1821BRHaydon2.jpg, 31Oct1821BRHaydon3.jpg Digital Mitford: The Mary Russell Mitford Archive Greensburg, PA, USA 2013

Reproduced by courtesy of the Reading Central Library.

Distributed under a Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License Digital Mitford Letters: The Mary Russell Mitford Archive Reading Central Library The letters of Mary Russell Mitford, vol. 4, 1819-1823 qB/TU/MIT Vol. 4 ff.441 Horizon No.: 1361550 Letter from Mary Russell Mitford to B. R. Haydon, 31 October 1821.

Folio sheet of paper folded in half to form four quarto pages, with correspondence on 1-3 and address leaf on page 4, then folded in thirds twice more and sealed for posting.

Address leaf bearing the following postmarks: 1) black circular mileage stamp reading READING . 2) Red double circle Evening Duty stamp reading B1 NO 11821 . 3) Sepia-inked oval Delivery stamp reading * NO * 1 * 1821 F.Nn

A large 7 denoting the fee for a single-sheet letter has been written in black ink by the postal service across the address leaf.

A portion of page 3 has been torn away under the seal.

Red wax seal, only partially visible in image 31Oct1821BRHaydon4a.JPG from 2007

 Red crayon or thick red pencil. Probably a different hand from Mitford's drawing a diagonal line across pages 1-3. Someone cataloging the letters, apparently other than Mitford, wrote B R. Haydon Esq at the top of page 1. Someone cataloging the letters, apparently other than Mitford, numbered each on page 1.

Mitford’s spelling and punctuation are retained, except where a word is split at the end of a line and the beginning of the next in the manuscript. Where Mitford’s spelling and hyphenation of words deviates from the standard, in order to facilitate searching we are using the TEI elements “choice," “sic," and “reg" to encode both Mitford’s spelling and the regular international standard of Oxford English spelling, following the first listed spelling in the Oxford English Dictionary. The long s and ligatured forms are not encoded.
Elisa Beshero-Bondar The Life of Mary Russell Mitford Related in a Selection from Her Letters to Her Friends, Second and Revised edition, 3 vols., Ed. Alfred Guy Kingan L’Estrange. London: Richard Bentley, 1870.
October 31st 1821. Three Mile Cross My dear Sir

The magnificent portion of bride cake arrived this morning & shall be distributed as you desire. Yes, we will set half the pretty girls in the parish dreaming on it--I wanted to make a bargain with one , to whom I gave a bit just now , that she should tell me her dream--but she says that would destroy the charm . --If she told who the husband was to be she should never get him. There was no saying a word after that , you know. By - the - bye , nothing but the sort of sacred air that breathes around Bridecake --so that to steal that would be to invade the sweetest & holiest of our affections & sympathies--nothing but this fine & general feeling could have preserved your munificent present , & brought it safe to us. By some accident it was sent , not by a Reading , Coach but a Newbury coach one , & found its way to Three Mile Cross, after being carried half way to Newbury, through the intervention of all manner of men & women--Post boys--& Chambermaids & keepers of Turnpike gates. But every thing belonging to such a Wedding & such a Honeymoon as yours will turn out right , depend on it. You see that your good luck extends even to your friends--& travels about with your bride-cake. Oh ! it will never forsake you , never ! Never ! I think that last honeymoon letter , written whilst the fair Bride was sitting , working , & smiling at your side, was prettier even than the first. Did you read it to her as you wrote it? or shall I send her a copy? It was worthy even of that charming seal. How much you must both have felt in going into your painting room . !-- Will the Lazarus be finished against next season? If any thing could improve your genius , it would be living in such a sunshine of love & beauty.

Miss James is very anxious to have the pleasure of being known to Mrs. Haydon--She mentioned your note with great delight, & talked of calling--but was not I suppose certain of the time you would return to Lisson Grove . She is by this time back again at Richmond. I wished her very much to call on you Sunday or Monday , that she might leave with you my poor Tragedy , which I have should , of all things , have liked wished you to read , --indeed I begged her to take the chance-- I have such an opinion of your judgment. But it is now out of her hands. Only think of my shocking ill luck in having written on the same subject with Lord Byron--The story of Foscari ! -- I am so distressed at the idea of a competition, not merely with his Lordship's talents, but with his great name, & the strange awe in which he holds people, & the terrible scoffs & sneers in which he indulges himself, that I have written to Mr. Talfourd requesting him to consult another friend on the propriety of entirely suppressing my play, which had gone to Town to be presented to the Manager the very day that the subject of Lord Byron's was announced. Lord Byron's play was published by John Murray on 19 December 1821. Byron had composed it between 12 June and 9 July 1821 in Ravenna. I rather think now that it will not be offered--that Mr. Talfourd will suppress it--& I heartily wish he may. My poor Tragedy has been a work of great labour & is certainly complete enough in its own small way, but it is abundantly womanish & feeble, & does not at all adhere to the literal historic truth--which would be a great disadvantage in case the noble author should have done so, & have made the public familiar with the facts. I hope it will not be offered. What do you think of Lord Byron's dramatic power? Manfred was very fine certainly--perhaps the finest thing he ever did--& Marino Faliero certainly the worst. But Foscari is a story of real human sympathy--not of factitious sentiment--He will certainly succeed in that. If this play If it be sent back to me unoffered , I shall immediately begin another play on some German story , & shall take for the opening the exquisite first act of the Orestes of Euripides --which I saw acted so finely a fortnight ago, & which it is quite wonderful to think has never been transferred to the English stage. . What astonishing people those Greek dramatists were! I am just now reading Potter's Aeschylus with the intensity of admiration with which you would look at the frescoes of Michael Angelo & . Happening to express something of this enthusiasm to a scholar of very great name he answered--"The Prometheus? Yes , the Prometheus is rather pretty--prettyish-- one of the prettiest!" Now what business has this man to know Greek ? ! And what business have I to be intruding so long on you?--Good bye my dear Sir . My Father & Mother join me me in every kind remembrance & kinder wish to you & to Mrs Haydon.

Ever most sincerely your's yours, MR. Mitford. M. R. Mitford.

Do not mention my Foscari unless it should really be likely to come out of which you shall have the earliest notice. But of that there is very little chance. Once more God bless you. We have just been drinking your health & your dear Mary's. Again Good bye

B. R. Haydon Esqre St. John's Place Lisson Grove North Regent's Park London